Are You Tired Of Being Alone?
R. asks the question: Why can’t I find love?
Dr. Lesley’s Free Card Reading Re: Relationships
A listener asks “why can’t I find love?” Watch the entire video for more of the information that may help you.
“I have a question from R.; why can’t I find love? The card that came up is this one (the card is displayed on the screen) about neutrality. It’s about how we look at the world and how we look at other people and whether we’re able to see them from a neutral accepting perspective or a judgmental critical perspective. Judgemental people can cause pain. I think what we’re looking at here has to do with having expectations of people and them not meeting them. It’s this idea of this person good enough to match up to what this perfect ideal or expectation of what the relationship should be.
I’m seeing that you’re looking at people through a list of expectations in your analytical mind. Of course, nobody’s perfect. Maybe it is time to learn how to stop being judgemental. We are all on this planet together learning. It’s kind of like a school so everybody’s got their foibles. You will not meet a perfect human that’s able to love you 100% of the time 100% perfectly. So the clue is in the card which is saying to observe people with neutrality and acceptance, drop the judgemental personality. To be able to look at the world from a neutral non-judgmental perspective and see people for whom they are. To accept them unconditionally for whom they are. Then you can find somebody who is a good match for you, someone who is a good match that resonates with who you are and where you are and is able to grow alongside you.
I’m seeing that the issue has to do with being critical and having an expectation of perfect love. What they will do for you and what the perfect love looks like in your idealized version. That is somebody who will heal you. Will make you feel better and of course
…”Watch the video, Why Can’t I Find Love, and learn more about this issue. You, Will, Find More Card Reading Responses By Dr. Lesley Here!!!
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